31 Days of Dominance – Day 16

Has your dominance evolved over time? If so, how has it evolved for you and if not (or if you are just starting out) how might you see or imagine it evolving in the future?

Of course it has! I started as a young fellow to whom BDSM was the gateway to some kinky, mind blowing, sex! After a while, I discovered that there was more to this than tying a submissive, beating her ass and fucking her. This is the environment that gave birth to my dominance.  It is also the point where after a disastrous break-up I took a detour into Vanilla-Land. Although I was not being kinky, I was still being a dominant. I coached, I mentored, I grew into leadership positions in the military. I had children, perhaps the highest stake D/s relationship we will ever have! I became a shooting sports instructor, a softball and baseball coach, then manager.  My whole life has led me to where I am, and although it has at times been painful, being me is a wonderful place to be!

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