31 Days of Dominance – Day 11

Does any element of BDSM occur as a part of your dominant relationships? How do you feel about BDSM? Is it core to your dominance, peripheral or non-existent (other than the dominant part)?

I am well known in my local area as a BDSM player, and while I love to play, it isn’t required for dominance.  BDSM is where I started, and I suspect that it will always be an important part of this thing that I do.  I enjoy a broad spectrum of play that includes electrical, impact, spanking, fire, cupping, sharps / temporary body modification, medical play, and boarding school role play. All that aside, my slave might tell you that my favorite fetish is making cases for all of my gear!

I feel that BDSM is an important part of who and what I am, but it is not the core.  I like to put it as “My Master/slave relationship is where I live; BDSM is where I vacation!” so I would say it is peripheral to my dominance.


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