Do you switch into a submissive role at any time? If you are in a domestic discipline relationship, are there things that you relinquish control over? Are you a “switch” in BDSM terms? If not, have you ever thought about it or given thought to why it’s not for you?
No, no, no, and yes. Early on my journey I played at submitting, but it was never satisfying or fulfilling for me except as a means to an end, to wit, my getting to be the dominant again. I have thought about it, but even as a child I was reluctant to submit simply because someone else was older or bigger; for me to follow you had to prove you had something going on worth following. I have always gravitated towards leadership and dominance both professionally and in my personal life; it’s just a part of who and what I am.